Wednesday, July 30, 2008

Ultrasound Friday 7/25/08

I can hardly believe that July is almost over, school is about to start, and we are 14 weeks along in this pregnancy. This summer has flown by with record speed at trying to get us to autumn. Jaime and I went in for our genetic counseling session last Friday. What we were there for is the genetic screening, associated specialty of the nuchal translucency screening (an ultrasound with blood work). Well, the first 1/2 hour we were there, we couldn't get the monkey to get into position. Our beautiful monkey (in absence of the gender knowledge and name... this is our nickname... Jacque was sweetpea and Jake was peanut...) was laying at the top of the uterus, had to the right and feet to he left and tilted just enough that we couldn't get a good profile shot - which is what we needed for the test. So, we poked, and talked, we laughed, as little monkey kicked and flailed arms about the womb. We were told to leave,walk, eat, drink and come back in a few hours. So Jaime and I went maternity clothes shopping and she got some really, really cute stuff, including a bathing suit! I wish it were me... the prego clothes are darling, nothing like they used to be 20 years ago. LOL! So, we successfully loaded the baby up with James Coney chili dogs and Delaware punch and walked and walked, until we thought our legs would fall off! Anyway, back to the doctor's office for another look... when i tell you it was nothing short of miraculous to watch our little monkey play, it really was. Monkey spend the next 20 minutes, while we watched with totally astonishment, as there was kicking, punching, poking itself in the eye, and no small feat we got a front row seat to see yoga poses in utero, like the salamba sirsasana. I wouldn't have thought it possible, if I hadn't seen it with my own eyes. But, the biggest bummer is that we couldn't get the information needed to complete the testing. Monkey changed positions, but only with head to the left and feet to the right, still tilted so we couldn't get that info! Our only other alternative it to have an amniocentesis between 16 and 17 weeks gestation. That is where we are headed next... so, in a few weeks we will have definite answers to put to rest the risks of Down Syndrome as well as other chromosomal abnormalities... we need prayers. I am worried about the 1/500 risk of miscarriage associated with amnio, but with the risk for Down's being 1/133 at this point, it is the better odds. So, now you are caught up on the happenings with the baby. Jake turns 18 in a couple weeks, leaves for school August 24th, and is taking 19 units this semester. He will be busy and so will we, we have a nursery to decorate! Love to all!

Thursday, July 3, 2008

July Already

I can't help but think how lucky Jaime is that she will not be at the totally horrifically huge prego phase during the heat of the summer... and what better excuse to eat whatever her favorite summer foods are, while eating for two. I am in a very strange place today... as the 4th of July is coming and one of Jacque's favorite holidays. I am reminded of comments like, "you aren't leaving home in flip flops, you WILL wear shoes when doing fireworks." In hindsight, what was i thinking really... I would totally have her back, even missing a toe or two... sick humor, I know. And then her two year Angel Day approaches and I find myself melancholy in that area, yet blessed for the new baby and Jaime... July is definately a hard month to get through! I am a ball of mixed emotions, yet the unwanted journey through grief can be a gift... looking for that silver lining amidst the forest! Thanks again to Jaime for carrying our newest miracle... cant wait! xoxo

Wednesday, July 2, 2008

10 WEEKS!

Well I just wanted to update that I am starting to feel much better...Yay!! The morning sickness has started to go away. I'm still a little tired though. I have to say, if that's the end of my morning sickness, I was pretty lucky. I never threw up...just nauseous off and on throughout the day. Tomorrow is the last day of my yucky meds!! I am more excited about that than anything...haha. I'm starting to show just a little. I'm just feeling fat right now...not prego. I'm anxious to start showing more! My hormones have settled some I think. Overall, I'm feeling pretty good. That's about it for now... :)